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How To Get Sex Online: Finding Easy Women And Their Insecurities

Want to know the easiest way to get sex online? All you have to do is become an expert at spotting easy women. There are loads of easy women online. Pretty much every hookup site has them!

Before I go into how to spot them, here’s the reasons women sign-up for casual sex sites…

  • They’re single and haven’t had sex for a while so they’re extra horny
  • They recently had a break-up and need sex to get their mind off their ex partner.
  • They prefer a discreet relationship because they don’t want their friends and family to know they’re out just looking for sex!
  • They’re tired of meeting up with drunks in a bar or club.
  • They’re too fat and no one offline chats them up.
  • They haven’t had any luck finding any decent men to have sex with offline.
  • Their partner isn’t putting out much or sucks in bed.

Every woman has a different reason for signing up for a casual sex site such as real-sexcontacts.com. The easiest way to find a date is to go after the easy ones. From the list above, only of few of those types of women are easy. You’ll have to put in more time and effort to get the other types of women into bed. Let’s go down through the list and determine just how easy they are…

Single and Haven’t Been Laid for a While: Some are easy, but most are not. Just because a woman is horny doesn’t mean she doesn’t have high standards. Women have vibrators to keep them happy until they find a man to replace it.

Recently Went Through a Breakup: These are some of the easiest women. They’re vulnerable. They want something to get their mind off their ex. Sex tends to do that. BONUS: If she mentions that she wants to get back at her ex by fucking some random stranger, you’d have to be a total loser not to be able to hit that.

Prefer a Discreet Relationship: This usually isn’t an easy girl. She’s probably going to want to get to know you for a while before meeting due to privacy issues. I’d avoid this type of girl if you’re wanting a quick fuck.

Tired of Bar Flies: This is another group you’re going to have to work on to get into bed. She clearly has some standards or she would continue fucking random drunks. Stay away if you want it now!

Fat Women: Perhaps the easiest women are the heffers. I’m not into doing a fatty, but if I was really desperate, you’re damn right I’d go find one and do her! Big girls need some loving too. And they’re equally desperate. Pretty much any guy they meet will be offered to have sex with them on the first date. So if you just want to rub one off, pick out a fattie and you’ll have her in your bed in no time.

Can’t Find Men Offline: They’ve tried bars, the gym, friends, etc. with no success. They’re too picky. Any woman could get laid easily offline. So if she’s not getting laid, it’s because she’s picky. So stay away from this type of woman. She’ll have way too high standards and will make you wait for sex.

Significant Other Sucks in Bed: This type of woman doesn’t want a quickie and will have way too high of standards. Her sex life at home is terrible so she’s going to be searching for someone that can please her the way she wishes her husband would. She won’t fuck the first guy she chats with. She’s likely to chat with dozens of men before settling on one (or two).

3 Questions to Ask Immediately That Give Away Whether or Not She’s Down to Fuck Right Now

If you’re looking to get laid right away, you shouldn’t even bother with women that aren’t ready to hookup. You can’t always tell from a profile how likely she is to want to hookup right away. So you have to inquire. If I don’t feel like waiting for sex, I get rid of women 5 minutes into a conversation if I don’t think they’ll hookup with me within 24 hours. I do that by immediately asking these 3 questions…

  • How desperately do you need to get laid?
  • If you met the right guy, would you be willing to have sex on a first date?
  • How recently have you gone through a breakup?

If she mentions she is so damn horny that she can’t think straight, would put out on the first date if things went well, and/or she has recently gone through a tough breakup, I pretty much know I’m going to get sex within a day (as long as her/our schedule is open). This is a vulnerable woman because she’s either been through a rough break-up or is desperate for sex. Of course, if she’s fat, you’re not going to have to ask those qualifying questions. 9 out of 10 overweight women will have sex, right away, with basically anyone that shows interest in them.

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How To Create Online Attraction

Online dating is sometimes more difficult than it looks. Use these simple techniques to create attraction and have online dating success!

Have you ever seen an ugly guy or a big, fat guy with a gorgeous woman? First reaction: He’s got money; that’s why she’s with him. But, there’s always an occasion where a woman is with the guy because she feels that attraction. The next question is: How does a guy create attraction? There are many different ways. You can use humor, you can tease her, be a challenge she can’t resist, take control and act as the leader, be charming and confident—there are so many different things.

Confidence

Get a list of pick up lines right now and you’ll see some that are so re-hashed that you KNOW girls have heard them all before. But you know what? Some guys still make these lines work for them. In fact, some guys can simply say “hello” and they get the women’s attention. It’s not what you say, but how you say it.

Confidence shows in the way you walk, the tone of voice you use and taking control of the situation. In other words, instead of letting her decide where you’re going to go, take control and you make the plans.

Humor

Another concept is humor. Women love funny men. Be funny, make jokes. When I’m with a girl, I always like to people watch. Women love doing this and you can always people watch and make funny comments about what other people are wearing, how they’re walking or their voices and stuff like that, just between you two.

Remember to keep it light, so that she knows you’re kidding. And most important of all, don’t get all piqued when she turns the tables on you and puts you at the receiving end of a joke. The best part of being funny is you draw out the funny side of the girl. When you’re laughing together, acting silly and exchanging pokes, you can bet she can feel the connection (and the attraction for you).

Personality

One thing about a guy that will make a woman turn her head regardless of how he looks is his personality. And “personality” has something to do with the way you set yourself apart from other men. When women find a man who has a great personality, they usually say he’s down-to-earth and easy to talk to. What does these mean?

Being down-to-earth simply means you’re not walking on eggshells around her, you’re not making her feel awkward by being awkward, and you’re not making it seem like you’re desperate to have her to like you back. At the same time, your whole demeanor will tell her that even if you are in like with her, you won’t put up with BS. If she’s acting in a way that does not seem right to you, make it clear that you’re walking out (with a smile and a wave, of course).

This kind of attitude drives girls nuts with attraction. A part of their brain panics at the thought of losing an awesome guy to another girl who’s less bitchy, more affectionate and more attentive towards him.

Be A Challenge

Another thing to avoid is kissing her ass. I hate to say it, but women throw out tests. You’ve got to have confidence and bust on them. That’s the perfect time to tease a woman. If a woman says, “Do these pants make my ass look big,” I might turn around and look and say, “Wow, really big. Whoa,” and smile because she knows you’re not being serious.

On the Internet, I might throw out something like, “Listen, I understand you’re not really attractive, guys can’t stand looking at you, they’re completely repulsed by looking at you, you’re not intelligent and you can’t carry on a conversation, so why are you on the Internet?” I’ll say it in a bit of a humorous way. It’s great because they know that I’m teasing them and I’m not kissing their ass. I’m not going to ask them all the time, “Are you okay? What do you need? Do you need anything?” No, I’m the guy. I’m the prize. She’s hanging around me. I don’t have to bend over backwards for her.

If the girl has a lot of spunk in her (and you can bet the prettiest ones out there have a lot of this), you’re almost guaranteed that she will take the bait.You’re someone she sees as a challenge, and in her head she secretly thinks it’s cute that you’re provoking her by teasing her.

Being Attractive Is Not All That When It Comes To Online Dating

Let’s face it, in online dating, being attractive is cheap. Why? Because you have a photo and a bunch of text describing yourself on your profile, and people judge you based on that. Or rather, they form an impression inside their head based on what they see. Now, we all know that you’re not going to put up a photo that doesn’t look good, right? Exactly.

The thing is, no matter how closely you resemble your photo, you will still look slightly different offline. She will either notice this or she will ignore it completely. It’s easy to figure out why women would love to go out with you regardless if you’ve gained weight since you took your bio photo or how much thinner your hair is.

On the other hand, if she sees you as a wimp, a bootlicker, a bore and a guy who’s always trying to impress her, you’d have wasted all the cash you spent on your skin (and hair) because she won’t be able to look past your bad personality or your desperation to really appreciate your looks.

For guys, we’re a little bit different. We’re more visual. They asked guys the same question and they guys all answered a body part, whether it’s breasts, legs,butt… So you see, women don’t place as high a value on looks as you might think they do, so if you’re not great looking, don’t worry.

They want somebody who’s funny, who’s a little bit cocky, who’s charming, who’s confident, who has a sense of humor, who’s a little bit of a challenge and who can put them in their place if needed. That’s the kind of stuff that women want.

How to Start Swinging

Interested in knowing about swinging and the swingers lifestyle? This is a guide to the different types of couple swinging and everything else that you should know about swinging  with your partner.

How to start swinging

Do couples actually swing in real life? Why do couples swing in the first place?

As complex as our anatomical set up and mind, our nature, characteristics, lifestyle and social behaviors are unique phenomena too.

We have an insatiable appetite for at least one thing in life, be it food or intimacy, as examples.

Leaving food on the table, we stray into a familiar territory to take a dig on an act of physical intimacy. Intimacy is a term stretched to every direction and now it’s slanting towards swingers and couples that want to start swinging.

Swinging is a non-monogamous activity of physical intimacy treated much like any other social activity, that can be experienced as a couple. It has a recreational perspective. Swingers indulge in intimate acts with someone other than one’s spouse/primary partner, with the full knowledge and consent of that person.

Swingers have been thriving since the beginning of recorded time. In the era of flower power, swinging was a very “in-thing” and among the most popular “culture”. It has had different social standings through time, of course! The phenomenon of swinging may be seen as part of the revolution of recent decades.

Swinging is like a sport for people who believe physical attraction is part of human nature and should be openly enjoyed by a committed or married couple.

Typically, swinging activities occur when a married or otherwise committed couple engages in carnal activities with another couple, multiple couples, or a single individual. The most common method is an adult male and female couple, meeting other pairs for lovemaking and physical intimacy, and sometimes ongoing intimate relationships. The activity may occur at a swing party, a couple-to-couple encounter, a liaison, or with a third person in a threesome.

How to start swinging – The different types of swinging couples

During these events, swingers acknowledge lovemaking as a game and participants as team-mates. There are few ground rules, but none etched in stone. The prominent carnal activities, but definitely not limited to, are several to mention, but a few of the most popular ones include:

Exhibitionism

It is the form of pleasure which involves making out with a partner while being watched by at least one other person.

Voyeurism

Watching others doing or performing the big bang. It is acceptable in the group event, but not in private areas.

Soft Swap

It involves kissing and stroking and the basics in blowing a guy or tickling a girl down south, with multiple partners. This can be indulged during the threesome, group romp, or while swapping partners.

Hard Swap

This is to have penetrative physical sex with someone other than one’s partner. The idea is almost the definition of swinging, but not necessarily the same.

Group Game

This term signifies the activities involving multiple players in the same lay-out. It usually defines a group of four or more people interacting physically. The most common is two couples, although it can be any gender of four or more people.

Ménage a Trios

Also known as threesomes, this is one of the most common methods of starting in the swinging lifestyle for beginners. A lot of couples will carry on with threesomes long after they become an integral part in swinging. In this, all three involved people interact with each other in bed.

Extreme Measures

These include things such as spanking, bondage, and water sports. The majority of these are very uncommon at most swingers’ parties unless the hosts have chosen a theme for the night, in which case you will be notified well before the night of the party.

Bi-Factor

People of the same gender interacting with each other sexually. This is much more common between women than men, but it doesn’t mean every woman will indulge in it. Bisexuality between men is extremely rare in the swinging community, and is usually frowned upon if not organized prior, and is usually preferred in a separate area.